Brian J.

*FUN(NY), ENGAGING, EXCITING, WITTY, INSIGHTFUL, STIMULATING, THOUGHT-PROVOKING CONNECTION!* *None of these words describe me per se... but hey, you could probably do worse, right?! :) Hi there and a warm welcome to my About Me! If you're looking for a fantastic listener, thoughtful question asker, witty and entertaining conversationalist who has compiled some valuable wisdom from successes as well as mistakes, then look no further! My areas of expertise are dating, relationships, friendships, business, life advice, career advice, family advice, insightful questions, race issues, and sports (mainly football and fantasy football), but I'm open to chat about any and everything you desire! My name is Brian and I’m a 35 year-old cisgendered male (he/him/his pronouns) who is based out of the New York City. Prior to NYC, I lived in San Francisco for about 5 years and Washington, DC for 11 years before that including college, and am originally from the greater New York Metro Area. English is my primary language and while I don’t consider myself fully fluent in Spanish, I do speak a basic conversational amount. I hold an undergraduate degree in finance and marketing, the former of which I’ve spent my professional career in. Those who know me best describe me as warm, kind-hearted, charismatic, energetic, respectful, open-minded, a social butterfly, confident but not cocky, having a good sense of humor, goofy, genuine, wise beyond my years, reasonably high IQ, off-the-charts EQ, a great listener, a feminist, LGBTQIA+ friendly, an open book, humble (yes, the contextual irony is not lost on me :) ), and having a rare ability to get to know people at their true core by asking them deeper, often challenging questions about themselves and their life experiences. I know how to work a room socially and consistently make a good, memorable first impression on behalf of myself as well as others with me. I am proudly in a committed, monogamous relationship. I’ve never been happier since meeting my amazing partner and we just got married in April 2023. See my Instagram for more on us :) Let's chat and see how I can help you!