ABDULGANIY O.

Growing up as calm and friendly child, I discovered friendships is a bond needed to make the society a safe place for everyone. It took years to find out that we might share the same color, and race but we don't share the same heart or intentions as others. Sharing a space with siblings, I have learned about competition, cattiness, pettiness, and other negative interpretations of male relationships. I also learned that going through friendship breakups both genders suffers alot just that it varies irrespective of the gender that we receives the painful fallout. Also, you can live the fun, joyous, friend-filled, connected life of your dreams. And the best part is, you don't need to change a thing about who you are. In fact my friend, I'd offer that becoming more of who you are is what will magnetize the right people to you. Being a small, diminished, lukewarm version of yourself will keep everyone being lukewarm on you.