Tamara T.

Hi my name is Tamara! I am a mother of three young children and wife to a full-blown Christian. Lol My children and I do believe in some aspects of traditional religion but are more in between full-fledged traditional religion and full-fledged spiritual believers. I believe both are connected, deep, deep down and that is where we should focus our attention in life. The world we live in is so divided that it is in a state of chaos. I'm a firm believer in allowing everyone to believe what they are willing to believe and not push one's beliefs on others and force them to change. Force creates a negative reaction in most cases and therefore does not really promote any positive changes in life. My husband is more likely to try to convince you to believe what he believes, whereas I am one to hear what you say, and if I feel like you are open to hearing my side of things, say what's in my mind but at the same time with no intention of actually changing your mind. I love to listen to people and help where I can or just listen. There are a couple of kids in the neighborhood that have come to my door just to sit and talk because they were feeling down. Sometimes just having someone to vent to, is all you really need. I know it's true for me and thankfully I still have my mom for me to vent to. I am very entrepreneurial and so are my children. I have run my own bookkeeping business for over 15 years and am currently stalled out due to bad business decisions that ate up the majority of my time and forced me to delay putting into action what would have made my dreams a reality. I'm now working on getting that back into action now that I have cleared my plate of most of the distractions. I am working toward launching a non-profit organization to help low-income families get out of the financial struggles they face in an effort to fill the gaps where government programs are lacking. I love to learn new things especially crafty or art-related or online business-related types of things. I love music (except for super heavy metal). I love to sing. I am typically the strong silent type and more of an introvert unless I feel comfortable enough with the people around me or am behind a screen. lol I'm more of a lover than a fighter overall but do have a strong backbone at times. I really hope that if you do not feel a connection with me, you do find someone to connect with. Otherwise I look forward to building a friendship with you.