James S.

Hello my name is James Stokes my goal here is to be a good friend. a lot of fake friends out there. we have enough out there as it is. Had my share fare of fake friends. You probably want to know what I think is a good friend? A real and true friend is there for you in the good times, not just a good times but the bad as well. Someone that will listen to you and not agree with everything that you say. Be able to have his or her own views and stand up to them views and to respect the views of the individual that goes both ways. To except that person for who they are as a person and an individual their faults they're goods everything about that person.. call them out on their f****** up excuse my language. Hold them accountable if they're doing something wrong and you feel that they're doing something wrong. tell them that they are. cuz that's what you're going to get with me if I feel that you're doing something wrong I don't like it I'm going to say something there's no filter on me I'm blunted up front. That's where I had a lot of problems in my friendships they didn't like the fact that I held them out on their s*** when I told him they was doing something wrong and I confronted Them about it. I expected the same from them I would have appreciate them for them call me out on my s*** cuz if I don't know if I'm doing something wrong then how can I fix it. Lost lots of friends that way but hey isn't that what friends are about to be there for you and call you on your s***. To be treated as equal. That's what I expect out of friendship I want you to treat me as I treat you and mean it not just to do it because you think you have to or cuz just to make me happy. Do it cuz you truly want to. Honesty and communication is real big thing with me I believe those are the two key elements in a friendship if you don't have communication or honesty there is no friendship you have to be able to be honest with yourself and love yourself to be a friend to me. That's all I know how to be is real. To be honest kind and understanding it took me a long time to get there with many slips and falls. Because I'm not perfect anyway I've had a lifetime of hardship,& chaos. But it's made me into the man I'm today If you would like to be my friend to know my hardships my falls the chaotic chaos in my life that made me the person I am today Rent me as your friend and I will be a true friend to you and I will listen I will understand and I will be there for you. Ok f you ever need me no matter the time of day I will de there. That's not a joke that's me being serious I will be your friend cuz I know how. Respectfully James c Stokes look forward to being a friend.